just some thoughts for the day…
– being “stealth” is not / wont be the downfall of the trans community
– it is CISSEXISM that challenges us, that degrades us, that creates rifts, that kills us, so please dont attempt to derail us in our self-love, support, community building projects with some bullshit about how our troubles are because of stealth folks, genderqueers, trans kinksters, fat trans folks, or any other trans person.
– not all people you identify as being “stealth” trans people identify that way (either as stealth or trans or any combination), and THAT IS OK
– being cis(sexual and or gender) does not mean you are a bad person, and it is not an attack on your personal freedoms to be identified as cis(sexual or gender).
– not all trans folks, including myself, want to hear your neverending processing about your cissexual privilege
– some of us, including me, do want to hear what work youre doing
– queer =/= trans by default; trans =/= queer by default
– i personally believe that how i am queer is about who and how i fuck, about my political strategies, is also intimately connected to my trans identity, it’s about a bunch of stuff, and THAT IS OK
– this fat person does not want to listen to you process your emotions around my body
– this gimp does not want to listen to you process your emotions around my body
– advocating for a scent-free and/or scent-reduced space is not restricting your personal freedoms, creating anarchy and/or creating a police state
– anyone, ANYONE, who tells me that they refuse to place accessibility information on their websites and other promotional materials is actively accessing ENabled privilege. Full stop.
– it is not my job as a gimp to educate you about my thoughts on gimp stuff, but it is most certainly my right to do so, and it would do us all a favourfor you to pay some attention
– my love of my fat body, my trans body, my gimped body, is not some delusion. It is self love in the face of a never-ending flood of messages that my body is wrong, is other, is worthless, is ugly.
Do not get in the way of me loving my body.